For Wives – 12 Tips for Mastering the Bedroom Move Every Man Craves
Let’s face it, they all love it. Men love, love, love a good blow job. It’s just mind-boggling how happy a well-executed BJ makes them. And if you’re reading this post, you probably know this already. Being able to deliver this treat to your man will make you the queen of the bedroom and probably the queen of his heart as well. So if you’re looking for ways to make him beyond, I mean BEYOND happy in bed, we’ve rounded up the best oral s*x tips for you.
- Start off slowly. Savvy Miss has a great play-by-play for getting the oral s*x party started, from kissing to finishing. He may be perfectly happy if you simply unzip his jeans and get to it. However, he’ll be even happier if you tease him and draw the whole thing out.
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Don’t use your teeth. We all know this, right? NO TEETH. Except
supposedly some guys like a little nibbling. Proceed with caution,
ladies.
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Do use your tongue. It’s not just about wrapping your lips around his
member. Play around with your tongue, too — especially at his most
sensitive spots, like the head and (for some guys) the balls and the
base of the shaft.
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Suck to start. The Joy of s*x calls it “raising the dead” — sometimes
to get the party started you can try firm yet gentle sucking. This
Reddit post on giving an epic blow job explains this technique.
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Relax to deep throat. Lord have mercy, men do love to go spelunking.
That Reddit post has some good advice: Take a deep breath and relax your
jaw and throat. Stick your tongue out. And then just go with it.
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Minimize gagging with the right position. First of all, gagging turns
a lot of guys on because “OMG, your man-hood is so HUUUUGE it’s gagging
me!” (Men are so weird sometimes.) But that aside, you may gag less if
you do the blow job on your back with him straddled over you head. Give
it a try.
- Make eye contact. Apparently a lot of guys think it’s hot if you can look them in the eye while blowing them.
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Keep it wet. Blow job expert (yes, really) Auntie Angel says
lubrication is the most important thing. And most guys would probably
agree. So drool away, or use a flavored lube. Don’t worry about getting
messy.
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That donut trick. You know the girl who ate a donut off her
boyfriend’s man-hood? It’s not for everyone, so run the idea by your guy
first before trying it.
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Experiment. There’s so much you can do — here’s a whole menu of oral
pleasures from The Gloss. Give them a try and see what he likes.
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Swallow. This is controversial, but the consensus seems to be that
men love it when you swallow. It’s definitely a more elegant solution.
Bottom line is you don’t have to if you don’t want to — but entertain
the idea.
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At least don’t blow and run. If you don’t want to let him come in
your mouth or on you anywhere, communicate before you get started about
how you can land a happy ending. And then, be gracious and don’t treat
his semen like toxic waste. That’s not very sexy, and it’s also not a
great way to encourage intimacy.
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